focal crosover
 

if you remove the wires off your amp and test to see what the ohm load is ,what will you see ?


why i ask is i'm getting 3.2 at the amp and 3.2 at the crosover .this is why i think i have an amp truning off on me (at high power use)

The impedance the amp sees will vary by frequency through the entire spectrum. Try testing the impedance of a tweeter only crossover with just a DMM ;)