holy women piss me off RANT
01-07-2004, 03:36 PM
#1
Honeslty I don't understand how some women are so damn over emotional.
Just got in another fight with my gf over no apparent reason to me, but obviously it was a big deal to her. It's a long story, but I gotta ask, why the hell are the so damn over emotional?
We've been together for over two years but today she's going on saying I think to think about what I want and all this bull****.
Jesus wtf am I supposed to say? It's like whoever you're with, they expect you to make some bg huge commitment to them, and do everything they want their way. I'm just pissed off right now because she's all pissed off, I'm not, so that makes her more pissed off. I don't do anything, I don't argue w/her, don't tell her what to do, I let her go out with whoever she wants, I don't get jealous and stupid. I usually only get one night off on the weekend yet I spend it with her, but somehow I am still wrong because I'm not all lovey duvey mushy **** all the time?
It's like I'm supposed to be some perfect all in one robot boyfriend. I dunno I'm just ranting right now because I'm pissed off, but do some of you guys alteast know what I'm talking about?
Just got in another fight with my gf over no apparent reason to me, but obviously it was a big deal to her. It's a long story, but I gotta ask, why the hell are the so damn over emotional?
We've been together for over two years but today she's going on saying I think to think about what I want and all this bull****.
Jesus wtf am I supposed to say? It's like whoever you're with, they expect you to make some bg huge commitment to them, and do everything they want their way. I'm just pissed off right now because she's all pissed off, I'm not, so that makes her more pissed off. I don't do anything, I don't argue w/her, don't tell her what to do, I let her go out with whoever she wants, I don't get jealous and stupid. I usually only get one night off on the weekend yet I spend it with her, but somehow I am still wrong because I'm not all lovey duvey mushy **** all the time?
It's like I'm supposed to be some perfect all in one robot boyfriend. I dunno I'm just ranting right now because I'm pissed off, but do some of you guys alteast know what I'm talking about?
01-07-2004, 03:43 PM
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AMEN!!PREACH IT BROTHER!!
I'm at a point where it will be way to soon for me to have another GF....In 2003 I had a total of 5 women get pissed off at me for no reason at all or punt me in the melon for varying reasons from "I need more space" to "I cant see you anymore..I'm patching things up with my ex"...
I have women friends...and thats about it...No offence to women intended,but "who needs em?"
I'm at a point where it will be way to soon for me to have another GF....In 2003 I had a total of 5 women get pissed off at me for no reason at all or punt me in the melon for varying reasons from "I need more space" to "I cant see you anymore..I'm patching things up with my ex"...
I have women friends...and thats about it...No offence to women intended,but "who needs em?"
01-07-2004, 04:00 PM
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Sorry to be the one to tell you this but you sound like a wuss. Once in a while tell her she can't go out with her friends. Once in a while tell her you will not be spending your only weekend night with her. get jealous a little. argue with her for a little bit about small stuff. Trust me I used to be like you and thought letting a girl do what she wants all the time was the way to go, but it just makes you pathetic and girls just don't like pathetic guys. I may catch some flak from this but I found it to be the truth.
01-07-2004, 04:03 PM
#4
Meh that's your opinion, I just don't give a **** enough to worry about such stupid things like that.
I don't see a reason to start either.
What's the point in getting mad over everything? I think I already have enough stress as it is, lol.
I don't see a reason to start either.
What's the point in getting mad over everything? I think I already have enough stress as it is, lol.
01-07-2004, 04:55 PM
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Originally posted by DWVW:
Sorry to be the one to tell you this but you sound like a wuss. Once in a while tell her she can't go out with her friends. Once in a while tell her you will not be spending your only weekend night with her. get jealous a little. argue with her for a little bit about small stuff. Trust me I used to be like you and thought letting a girl do what she wants all the time was the way to go, but it just makes you pathetic and girls just don't like pathetic guys. I may catch some flak from this but I found it to be the truth.
Sorry to be the one to tell you this but you sound like a wuss. Once in a while tell her she can't go out with her friends. Once in a while tell her you will not be spending your only weekend night with her. get jealous a little. argue with her for a little bit about small stuff. Trust me I used to be like you and thought letting a girl do what she wants all the time was the way to go, but it just makes you pathetic and girls just don't like pathetic guys. I may catch some flak from this but I found it to be the truth.
Girls don't like pathetic guys they like challenges. Once a guy gives in to everything and doesn't argue it's not a challenge anymore. Arguing is good for the soul. And rememeber when you fight you always get to make up!
01-07-2004, 05:08 PM
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any of you guys ever treat a girl like trash ? usually they stick around a long time. you`d be surprised at what some of them will put up with.
i mena if you took the same girl and treated her like gold you`d get the - i need space/we just arent looking for the same things/blah blah blah ...
if that makes any secne ...
i mena if you took the same girl and treated her like gold you`d get the - i need space/we just arent looking for the same things/blah blah blah ...
if that makes any secne ...
01-07-2004, 05:12 PM
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lol.... i dunno what to say.. i just felt like i have to respond to this... Girls will be Girls, and that's all.. You'll never find one that will be happy all the time, and you'll never make any of them happy all the time.
I had a girlfriend for 2 years and that didn't work well, cause i got into car audio to much, and whenever i was at her house, all i did was sit in her garage working on my system, or played ping-pong with her sisters b/f!
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Anyway just my 2 cents here.. i guess i feel ya when they get pissed off... My ex used to always get pissed at me, and i was like [img]graemlins/dunno.gif[/img] meeh! [img]graemlins/dunno.gif[/img]
But hey good luck to you, and hopefulyl things will work my friend! At elast i get along real with my new girlfriend of 6 months... come to think of it we have never really had a fight about anything>?? [img]graemlins/freak.gif[/img]
livin loud
I had a girlfriend for 2 years and that didn't work well, cause i got into car audio to much, and whenever i was at her house, all i did was sit in her garage working on my system, or played ping-pong with her sisters b/f!
..Anyway just my 2 cents here.. i guess i feel ya when they get pissed off... My ex used to always get pissed at me, and i was like [img]graemlins/dunno.gif[/img] meeh! [img]graemlins/dunno.gif[/img]
But hey good luck to you, and hopefulyl things will work my friend! At elast i get along real with my new girlfriend of 6 months... come to think of it we have never really had a fight about anything>?? [img]graemlins/freak.gif[/img]
livin loud
01-07-2004, 05:18 PM
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Personally I never understood why some girls like bad guy's. I don't like pathetic men but just cause a guy doesn't yell at you and tell you that you can't go out somewhere, that doesn't mean he's pathetic. It probably means that he trusts you, loves you and respects you. I would never take any of that crap. I don't know maybe it's just me but I would rather get a bunch of roses and made to feel like the special person that I am My friends say it's just because I love myself too much, and I guess I must since I don't want to be treated like crap [img]graemlins/dunno.gif[/img] I think that sums it all up, if a women doesn't like to be treated good then she probably doesn't like herself that much.
Well time to go look in my mirror I haven't seen my beautiful face for about 5 minutes, J/K I don't love myself that much. It's every 10 minutes not 5. [img]tongue.gif[/img]
As for understanding women I can't help you there, but maybe you should just be trying to understand her. Belive it or not we are not all the same
My friends say it's just because I love myself too much, and I guess I must since I don't want to be treated like crap [img]graemlins/dunno.gif[/img] I think that sums it all up, if a women doesn't like to be treated good then she probably doesn't like herself that much. Well time to go look in my mirror I haven't seen my beautiful face for about 5 minutes, J/K I don't love myself that much. It's every 10 minutes not 5.
[img]tongue.gif[/img] As for understanding women I can't help you there, but maybe you should just be trying to understand her. Belive it or not we are not all the same
