Going out and getting laid seems like a good idea but it is the furthest thing from my mind right now. Can't get her off the mind.

 

Beer and more beer, maybe a night at umm the nudie bar. thats all i can think of right now, ill try to add more later

 

go on a bender.

 

win the lottery and show her what she lost [img]smile.gif[/img]

 

Just don't be like my buddy, damn guy whine and bitched sounded more like a women. There's a limit on a man's "crying" , but don't go nuts telling her parents **** about to her parents to hate her lol, calling her a etc etc.. lol.. Just take it easy go out have fun your lookin at abit of pain for a couple months depending how attached you are but I found hanging out with friends more and other females slowly clears your mind just keep doing something everynight but don't visit 1 same person lol.. or they will get annoyed with you....

 

ride it out, have some fun, live ur life hang out with friends. Its hard this i know as im still gettin over someone. But unfortunately it happens.

 

The above suggestions are good.
But in my own personal experience, the only thing that really helps is time.
Give it a month, maybe 2 or 3, and slowly things will start to get better.
And yes it does seem like a long time...
Just try and be as normal as you can, and you'd be suprised, after a while, maybe you two can be friends, and eventually things might start up again.
It might sound far fetched, but you never know right?

 

Friends is always good, BUT if she was a pyscho stay away lol... yet again back to my buddy, this chick stated he hit her etc etc... Why on Earth would anyone get back with a chick if she was a pyscho?? So if she's normal def makes friends if possible and go from there like JT above said, friends never hurt.

 

Try to concentrate on other things, preferably things that won't remind you of her ...

Such as work ... Now is a great time for you to work overtime and get ahead in your career [img]graemlins/thumb.gif[/img]

You have to look at every bad situation and think of a way to turn it into a good one or at least a not-so-bad one.