Ok, so my girlfriend.. she's the greatest chick in the world, and we've been going out for like 2 years.. lately, it seems like she'd rather spend time with her friends than me... it's really starting to bother me, because she's told me about a couple of her previous boyfriends.. she' completely lost interest in one and was falling for another while they were still going out... and tonight she completely blew off dinner and a movie with me to go spend time with a friend...I've tried talking to her about it but she just gets really upset at me.. so am i just looking too far into it, or am i justified?

 

ok, i called her after i posted this... i think we're starting to get things sorted.. hopefully they work out well... been a hard day! [img]smile.gif[/img]

[ February 08, 2004, 04:33 AM: Message edited by: bigmike216 ]

 

Communication is one of the hardest things in a relationship, some say men and women speak different languages. I will say my wife and I are from different planets and communication is always an effort.
With a 2 year relationship things are getting a little boring or a routine has been developed. The routine is dangerous because you completely take the other for granted. Assuming there isn’t another rooster in the hen house, simply break the routine and do something together special (a trip, a special evening) without outside influence. Oh yeah, start talking again.

 

glad to hear.. it's amazing how much just talking about it can help..

 

Glad to hear things are on the mend man! Best of luck.

 

mmm "so i reached back and i slapped the ho!"

wait...thats not good advice...listen to the other guys. [img]tongue.gif[/img]

Glad to hear everything is working out.

 

hehe, thanks for the encouragement guys!

 

Well I hate to be the voice of negativity but I'll jus share my personal experience, not saying this is what will happen in your case, just what happened in mine.

Me and my gf at the time were together for close to 4 yrs, around the 3yr mark all of a sudden she did as yours did, started hanging out with friends, kinda blowing me off here and there. Long story short, were not together anymore, she was hanging around with alotta guy "friends" as she called them, I think she was getting her *** licked personally but she wont admit to it.

Lesson I've kinda taken from it, its nice to be together all the time, but if you don't learn to seperate yourselves once in a while to go out with friends on your own, its inevitable that its gonna come back and kick you in the beans.

Good luck though.

 

we're not together all the time though, we just spend a day together usually.. we both have our separate friends that we spend time with. We talked through most of the night, and i think we've worked it out.. we shall see how it goes.

 

well... she dumped me.. whothe hell was i kidding.. should have seen it comming sooner... she gave me a card on valentines day saying my gift was a work in progress... and now i'm single... [img]graemlins/cry.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/cry.gif[/img]

[ February 18, 2004, 11:52 PM: Message edited by: bigmike216 ]