Thumper89

Ok...so since Feburary I have had my ex gf dump me and inform she lied to me the whole time we were together...

Had another woman just up and disappear into thin air for no reason at all....

Then had another one start something with me,we started to "get busy" one night,and in the middle of it all she says"sorry,I can't do this..blah blah blah!!"..gets her stuff together and leaves..

Now...

I meet this woman through work the other day and we seem to hit it off and have been together the last couple nights just hanging together...of course I have had some concerns and all,but this afternoon she called me and relieved some of them..fine...I invite her over for a movie tonight..."I will let you know.."

NADDA!!NOTHING!!!

Once agian,I am left standing here shrugging going "what the hell??"...

Don't get me wrong...I have lots of woman friends and have nothing against women in any way.

But I would like to know what I may or may not be doing,saying or etc thats making me a "dump magnet"...what the hell?

You know,it just makes me wanna give up on women all together and just loose myself in my work,car stereo stuff,etc...

Its just not worth the aggrivation!!


Ok....I am done ranting....make your comments as you will....right now,I just dont really care...

I'm sure after a good night sleep,I will be better in the morning,but right now,just shaking my head.... [img]graemlins/dunno.gif[/img]

I would like some feedback from the fairer sex in this matter...I know what you guys think....lol

MrEastSide

Man I don't know what the deal is! Some chicks are just weird. And you just may have gotten a few weird ones all in a row! Bad luck but I am guessing that it happens every now and then! LOL! Keep moving and sooner or later you'll find a normal girl that acts like a human! LOL! I have had a few odd ones come along myself. One second they like you and are all over you. And the next second they are telling you that your ***** is too small errrr.... uhhh I mean they are getting up and leaving. So just keep on looking. Something good will eventually present itself!

[ September 12, 2003, 01:30 AM: Message edited by: MrEastSide ]

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a american that takes shots at himself [img]graemlins/thumb.gif[/img]

guess you can hang out here

is there a draft comming or somthing? you planning on border jumping?? Just kidding dude.

ChrisB

iTrader: (4)

women are f****d. it's not worth the time! [img]graemlins/freak.gif[/img]

Thumper89

What makes this latest one even weirder is this....

I work for an auto parts store chain...Every Tuesday I work at this one store for some extra hours..

She works for on of the shops that this particular store deals with(this is how we met...over the phone)..

Now...

This means this coming Tuesday,there is about a 95% chance her and I will have contact of some sort...

For me,if I dont hear from her before then,I think if she tries to tell me whatever,I will just say "whatever" and ask for order...

I'm getting sick of getting kicked in the head....
But...
Also tired of being alone....

I will be 30 in a couple monthes...would really like to find that special girl...

But is it worth going through this agin and again...

This last season kept me so busy,I had no time to think about it...but now..things are slowing down and well......

I just dont know.......

Thumper89

By the way....

Thanks for the posts guys...

And thanks for being my good friends... [img]graemlins/thumb.gif[/img]

maltesechicken

zeros and ones make the best friends. Either on, or off - nothing in between. [img]tongue.gif[/img]

Thumper89

So..she called this morning right after my last post...

gave me a this long story ab9out why she didnt call or anything else....

right now,I'm a little less confused,but still sort of on guard...

something somehow doesnt seem right....but then again I have a tendency to be a little paranoid... [img]graemlins/dunno.gif[/img]

I will keep you all posted..

again...thanks for being good friends who put up with me and my crap!! [img]graemlins/thumb.gif[/img]

goofball2k

iTrader: (1)

don't understand them either, kinda gave up trying to. [img]graemlins/freak.gif[/img]

maybe it's just a phase, dude. I went through it before too. I wouldn't worry too much about it. Your time will come, just hope you're aware when it does show up. [img]graemlins/thumb.gif[/img] I sure wasn't. Thank god she stuck around long enough to make me aware.

Dave

Yes women are weird but at the same time are you sure that your not doing something wrong?
It sorta seems like your a nice guy and the girls you are after arent looking for that type of guy.
When this last chick called you it would have been a good idea to tell her that not calling back isnt something that you will put up with. Basically show her who is in control. As soon as a chick figures out she has control in a relationship she starts getting bored and then:
1) Cheats on you
2) Breaks up with you