I don't see what's wrong?

I mean we all have priorities, he can choose the order of his just like anyone else. Can we see that it is probable he will regret it? Of course, but he may also be happy and move on to real cars afterwords hehe

 

well i guess then my real question is if someone told you to sell your pride and joy, how would you feel and how do you think you would react?

 

bin there done it (by by 735i bmw) but it is just a car ......but in time the $ comes and in time the toys come

as i have my kid on my knee typing this

my suv is not the last toy i get but for now

 

Material things are nothing.
And you can always get them back or replace them.

I have sold my performance car and have sold all of my car audio because I changed my priorities. I am slowly getting back some car audio and eventually will have a much cooler performance car.

Let's face it, a CRX is a phase anyway, it's not like he is going to keep it for ever.

I can see that he would want to accomodate her and the kid. I couldn't imagine not having 4 seats though.

 

I agree material possesions are whatever, but this chick sounds like she's trying to run the show and or demanding he do stuff. At least that's how the original post makes her sound. Kinda demanding and crap.

 

im thinking it is very true that material posessions can come back.
yeah a 4dr i guess is a good idea.
he has a truck though.
and also has a vw 4 dr passat i believe. an older one.

so i mean is this not enough? can he not keep his cool little daily driver?

 

Where does she have the right to even ask this of him? He works, takes care of her and a kid that isnt his...

I live with my girlfriend... She has never once ask me to sell my possessions. She isnt working right now, and has 2 girls. So money for her is tough to. But she has more respect for me then to demand more.

If they were starving and needed rent money and stuff i can see it.

 

I would FOR SURE tell her no way. You cant ALWAYS give in... thats not a relation ship of give and take.

 

There just isn't enough info here to make the correct call. Maybe she really likes him but can't get a job that pays well enough to afford daycare while she works. Or maybe she looks at him and only see's a paycheck and a baby-daddy. Maybe she just wants to stick with him long enough so that he gets stuck paying child support (yes even though it isn't his kid he can get stuck paying). Too many variables that we don't know.

I just broke up with my girlfriend tonight. Yes I will accept your well-wishes now and yes I am going to go sleep with one or two of her friends. So even though my judgement might be a bit off at the moment (and my buds took me out for pints tonight so it may be way off) I would say unless she's contributing to the household/relationship in some other way to make up for him paying all the bills he should just move on.

 

Mind your own business and let your buddy live his life!