im just here to get ideas and pse questions to him.
he seems really bummed out.
like he is a very cheerful guy who can make a giant joke out of everything, and its always funny. but lately nothing, not even a joke if you set yourself up to get burnned. its like someone cut off his nuts man. he is like a nuterd dog...

 

Yea, you will understand better if you consider that whoever this girls is...... she dosen't know or understand what she is doing either.....

let her conduct the show she's already started and I doubt you'll like the role you play once the story is over....

3mth old baby from some other guy ? how long they been together ? they 'love' eachother ??? moved in and hes paying bills and now has to sell his project car.....

your bro is going for a ride..... better tell him to buckle up....

 

hmmm...id say just talk to him, try and let him know that its obvious to everyone he is real down and that you dont think it is worth it to do all that for this girl....ask him what he expects to happen in the future if she already wants him to sell the cars and i dont know i guess just try and get him to look at things from a diffrent point of view than the way he is viewin things right now

you cant really do much here.... tell him that u think she is a bitch and he is being dumb and try to get him to understand why you think this..... do you think this? haha sorry if you dont ... i sure has hell think that lol

 

Sorry to hear about that, breaking up is tough to do.

But for the OP's friends relationship, if she won't contribute to the relationship and make him support her and her baby which isn't even his, he should just say sayonara to her, because that relationship seems to be a disaster waiting to happen. Possessions can always be replaced, but if all she does is take, take, take, and never contributes to the relationship, that isn't any kind of relationship I would want to be in.

 

yeah sorry to hear hardwrkr... it sucks... been there aswel...
just old enough to drink now :P so...

i have had a talk with him and update, good news he is keeping the cars, but idn whats going on with his chick... i guess i should see where thats going to, i think she is just in it cuz he makes something like 24 an hour ...

 

At least he isn't making 8.50 an hour and she was leeching off of that, that would be a trainwreck. But from what it seems like, she is just in it for the money.

 

And this was in Europe? IIRC Euro spec CRX's had back seats but I've never seen a NA model with one. For reference, this is a CRX:



As for the girl - dude no matter what you say, you won't be able to change you're buddies mind. All you can do is mess up your friendship with him. I would politely let him know that he's making a big mistake and leave it at that. Then if/when it all goes bad you have right to rib him about it

 

oh ! where did that guy get the pie plate looking rims... dam those are dubs...

 

Those rims are probably completely chrome, and they are so ballin', that you can't take a picture of them because they are so shiny.

@zinger: you should email your friend the link to this thread.

 

I'm glad your buddy decided to keep the cars. Otherwise when she leaves him (and she will once she's gotten all that she was looking for) he'd be out of his cars, which make him happy, AND sex! How awful would that be?

If this chick was looking to actually hang around long-term, she'd be kissing so much ***, and offering to wash this guys cars, not try to sell em. Chicks with kids tend to mouch and take what they can, but then when they do find someone they are actually into, they will completely invest themselves, and make damn sure that the guy they want is going to support them and their kids by doing everything and anything, and won't be risking the relationship by making such high and ungrounded demands.
Chicks with baggage know that they aren't on the "desired list", so then they do find what they want...they won't be asking guys to start selling their cars...She's obviously just using him for the time being.

Bottom line, he's better off without her.