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[QUOTE=teamaerostar2]
Whats disgusting about it, is you still make the choice when having sex with her one way or another whether or not to have the child to begin with. It's great you support the children and care for them that is an awesome thing I'm glad you do that, but however it's still taking a toll on them. It was the sexual decision that is "disgusting". She does sound psycho I dunno how you even dated her to begin with if thats how she was though man...
I've actually graduated high school and already been through college lol 
And I've been through A LOT already, more than you'll ever know let alone need to know. Go ahead reopen the convo in 10 years I don't think you'll see much difference in my opinion lol
And that was friggin hilarious lol 
Originally Posted by Blinddemonz
And these are the type of people that make me sick. Such irresponsibility. I feel bad for the children in this. When you're with someone make sure that that's gonna be the person you're forever with that you can tolerate them and that having children is right for both of you. Because later down the road a divorce is more devastating(sp) than you may think on children. It's not fair to them, just remember when you make the decision to leave it doesn't just involve you and her, it involves everything you made from the beginning.
Just disgusting ...
Buddy you have no idea ...the first one was a total money hungry bitch that would go to welfare when i was out of town working and tell them that I just up and left so she could get more money....guess who had to pay it back? ME!!! nuff said she is gone don't need that as far as the 3 girls we are always in touch and they know what their mom is all about and that I am not a deadbeat becouse they get their money every month on time ...not like the numerous dead beat dads out their.
2nd one ...it was her choice to leave not mine and I pay for my son as well and have him "every" day after work and on weekends as well....so these kids are not sufering jessus I pay out $880.00 every month for my kids so how is this disgusting?????? please tell me!
Just disgusting ...
Buddy you have no idea ...the first one was a total money hungry bitch that would go to welfare when i was out of town working and tell them that I just up and left so she could get more money....guess who had to pay it back? ME!!! nuff said she is gone don't need that as far as the 3 girls we are always in touch and they know what their mom is all about and that I am not a deadbeat becouse they get their money every month on time ...not like the numerous dead beat dads out their.
2nd one ...it was her choice to leave not mine and I pay for my son as well and have him "every" day after work and on weekends as well....so these kids are not sufering jessus I pay out $880.00 every month for my kids so how is this disgusting?????? please tell me!
Originally Posted by teamaerostar2
I would like to see this discussion opened again in 10 yrs and see just what blinddemonz's comments are then....you are still in school man so you have bairly even tasted life....lol
And I've been through A LOT already, more than you'll ever know let alone need to know. Go ahead reopen the convo in 10 years I don't think you'll see much difference in my opinion lol
Originally Posted by HyundaiGuyMTX
^i would kinda like to see ur comments when u realize blinddemonz is a female.
Last edited by Blinddemonz; Feb 22, 2006 at 01:49 AM.
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Maybe you will all realize that in all realtionships it take two to tango. Until both halves are ready to grow up and take responsbility for themselves, there isnt much that one can do for the other till that happens. Wheter you are a man or a women, staying home with kids or taking the responsbility to look after kids, its a full time job as well that needs to be given just as much respect as a man or women going out of the house to work....As far as realtionships go, if you not working at them. then thay are obviously not worth having, cuz nothing is worth having if you dont work hard to get it.
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Originally Posted by ltlepinkescort
Maybe you will all realize that in all realtionships it take two to tango. Until both halves are ready to grow up and take responsbility for themselves, there isnt much that one can do for the other till that happens. Wheter you are a man or a women, staying home with kids or taking the responsbility to look after kids, its a full time job as well that needs to be given just as much respect as a man or women going out of the house to work....As far as realtionships go, if you not working at them. then thay are obviously not worth having, cuz nothing is worth having if you dont work hard to get it.
very nicely said.....In my case I "was" working on a solid relationship and it jsut didn't work out...yes the kids get stuck in the middle but that is something that all involved have to work on.
I am constantly telling the kids that it has nothing to do with them as far as me and their mothers breaking up (the girls 11, 15 & 16 understand this now) the 8 yr old boy understands and the 3 yr old ....well he just loves us both and understands that mom and dad have their own houses and he gets to go to both of them. all will be explained to him when his reasoning and understanding become clearer as he grows up.
nuff said ....i think we can call this one closed now?????
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Originally Posted by teamaerostar2
very nicely said.....In my case I "was" working on a solid relationship and it jsut didn't work out...yes the kids get stuck in the middle but that is something that all involved have to work on.
I am constantly telling the kids that it has nothing to do with them as far as me and their mothers breaking up (the girls 11, 15 & 16 understand this now) the 8 yr old boy understands and the 3 yr old ....well he just loves us both and understands that mom and dad have their own houses and he gets to go to both of them. all will be explained to him when his reasoning and understanding become clearer as he grows up.
nuff said ....i think we can call this one closed now?????
I am constantly telling the kids that it has nothing to do with them as far as me and their mothers breaking up (the girls 11, 15 & 16 understand this now) the 8 yr old boy understands and the 3 yr old ....well he just loves us both and understands that mom and dad have their own houses and he gets to go to both of them. all will be explained to him when his reasoning and understanding become clearer as he grows up.
nuff said ....i think we can call this one closed now?????
Teamaerostar2 - You can tell children til they're blue in the face that it isn't their fault, eventually they'll understand yes and know that it isn't their fault, but there are other things than blame that do the damage too
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Originally Posted by Blinddemonz
ltlepinkescort - VERY well said
Teamaerostar2 - You can tell children til they're blue in the face that it isn't their fault, eventually they'll understand yes and know that it isn't their fault, but there are other things than blame that do the damage too
Teamaerostar2 - You can tell children til they're blue in the face that it isn't their fault, eventually they'll understand yes and know that it isn't their fault, but there are other things than blame that do the damage too
blind - are you done now? becouse i grow tired of this.
lol
